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There is currently no DM functionality on SheepishPatio, there was a brief period where we tried it but the extension functionality was buggy and half-baked. (as well as security concerns etc)
I host an XMPP instance that you can join and message some users from here, ie gingermilk's reply.
XMPP is a bit old-school but it allows anyone on any xmpp instance to talk to others and features proper encryption. I've written a little blogpost on it here:
https://sheepishpatio.net/blog/383-xmpp-overview
You can download whatever client sounds good and join mine @chat.skyshanty.xyz or if you know anyone else's you can join there.
Hope this helps!

gingermilk No problem, you can add it to your profile via the social buttons. I'd like to sort out something better integration wise but devs are few and far between.

15 days later

Curious what people's learning methods are. I listen to the biggest talk radio of the language 30mins-1 hour every day and read for an hour revery day, adding new words into an Anki deck. I also try to write my diary in the language. This is not an interesting method and maybe not the best, but it's intuitive, covers all bases and seems to work for me.

    sonoko I also try to write my diary in the language

    I have done that too, but the major problem for me is that no one will fix my mistake so I feel like I am just wasting my time. A friend of mine uses ChatGPT to catch errors and it seems like this method is working, so maybe I will try that sometime.

      gingermilk You're definitely right, that can be an issue, but getting you thinking in the language is worth the odd error here or there, I think.

      16 days later

      I'm a native English speaker, and currently learning Spanish. I have been told that I used to know it as a kid, and then eventually forgot it when I moved to an area where no one else spoke it.
      I unfortunately know no other languages. I have tried learning some many times by myself, and in school. None of it stuck very well. The best was German when I studied for a year, even then I could only understand on the level of a child. I decided to do Spanish since it is one of the more useful languages where I live, I liked what I know about with Spain, and I have been told they have underrated books and movies. If I learn Spanish to a good degree, I would want to learn German or Russian.
      I'm currently running through teach yourself Spanish books and doing their exercises.

      gingermilk
      Languages I know are Japanese and English.
      I have wishes to learn French and Chinese!

      I guess I'm learning german, but it's been really on and off for me for a while now. I used to attend a course for it and made it through B1, but I really didn't try too hard and that was a while ago and I ended up forgetting a lot of things. Then recently I started feeling super guilty about that for no real reason and started forcing myself to review some grammar and then started reading a couple pages of a book in german each day. It really worked for a while, but then I got bored of it and now I'm feeling all guilty again.
      I feel like it'd be a lot easier if I knew someone or a group of people that had something in common with me and I spoke german with them regularly, but that's probably never happening lol
      Language learning is hard...

      • Yui replied to this.
        17 days later

        bakkin113 I'm native and I wouldn't mind talking in german with you from time to time!
        Learning japanese myself and got back into it recently, and I know those fustrating feelings, lol

        I mostly use English or Filipino in my everyday interactions, but I've been studying Chinese, Japanese and Korean for a long time now (about a decade or so).
        As of now, I can read and listen to 8 languages in varying degrees of understanding, but I can only speak three of them comfortably.

        I usually learn grammar and basic vocabulary (via books, websites, flashcards, etc.), then I immerse myself in content in that language exclusively, consulting a dictionary, machine translation, or language forums when I find myself struggling to keep up.
        But the number one rule is: avoid falling back on your mother tongue as much as you can! the less you rely on translations, the easier it will be acquiring new knowledge later on, even if it's a really steep cliff to climb at first.

        I'm a native English speaker learning Russian and Mandarin through self study. On a good day, I can hold a conversation.

        Now I've added Japanese to the languages that I'm juggling. I noticed that I can get the meaning of most of the kanji, it has a massive amount of loanwords, and I watch anime with subs so why not give it a go? This time I'm employing a few new strategies.

        First I'm prioritizing listening comprehension. My theory is that children learn to listen before they learn to speak - and they learn to speak before they learn to read and write. I've failed to prioritize listening comprehension with Chinese and Russian and it's biting me in the back. It's difficult to key in on spoken words because my mind is on the alert for the mispronunciation rather than the actual pronunciation.

        Luckily I've found a wonderful anki deck that is built for listening practice. Better yet it's anime themed! It's called "Jlabs Beginner Course" and it's the only Anki flashcard deck that I looked forward to studying every day.

        Another strategy I'm using is to use English subtitles. I know people advocate for watching anime with Japanese subs right away, but I've done it with Mandarin and found what becomes an enjoyable hobby becomes a chore. I'm pausing and translating words (many of which are not useful) and I miss patterns because it's difficult to grab context and get a "road map" of the sentence. It's more like speed reading practice.

        With English subtitles, I can speed read the sentence and prepare my brain for what is about to be said, identifying anything important. I'll then concentrate on listening for key words and how they interact with each other. I'll hit the rewind button occasionally to drill it into my mind.

        Finally, I'm focusing heavily on studying phrases and idioms instead of individual words. Drilling words is useful at first but once you encounter synonyms I think it's time to drill phrases and idioms instead. Therefore if I find a useful word, I'll not only write the word in my Anki deck, I'll write the entire sentence where I found the word. It'll give a better feel of which context is best suited for which synonym and I become more acquainted to making sentences.

        Overall, I think learning a foreign language requires constant shifting of strategies. While I'm satisfied with the pace of my listening skills, I know I'll need to eventually switch strategies again.

        a month later

        Here are some quick tips for effective language learning:

        Set Clear Goals: Define what you want to achieve.
        Practice Regularly: Aim for daily practice, even for 15-30 minutes.
        Use Various Resources: Combine apps, podcasts, books, and videos.
        Immerse Yourself: Watch movies and listen to music in the target language.
        Speak Early: Practice speaking with native speakers to build confidence.
        Join a Community: Engage with others learning the same language.
        Leverage Technology: Use apps and online courses for interactive learning.
        Focus on Vocabulary: Start with high-frequency words and phrases.
        Learn Cultural Context: Understand cultural nuances to enhance comprehension.
        Be Patient: Language learning takes time; celebrate small victories!
        These strategies can help make your language learning journey more enjoyable

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        • Nah replied to this.

          I find linguistics itself (especially IPA notation and regional accents) to be pretty damn neat, but I don't really speak any other languages.

          6 days later

          I speak Norwegian, English, and can "understand" Russian due to the Russian influence imposed upon my country. I've been attempting to re-learn it by browsing Russian speaking forums, Russian Visual Novels (yes, surprisingly those exist) and using Anki.

          7 days later

          English is my native language, and I'm slowly reaching fluency in spanish, not sure if I'll ever be able to speak it well though.
          My level is pretty decent so now I'm mostly learning now by watching history videos about south america, I'll watch one or two 30-40 minute videos a day of their history, starting from when the Spaniards arrived. I always feel guilty when doing so, though, since I'm putting so much time into learning about South America and the Spanish empire instead of just learning about the USA that I currently live in.

          It is really interesting, though, and if there was a good series about the USA in native Spanish I'd watch that, as it is now I satisfy my urge to learn about history and learn Spanish at the same time.

          I'm looking for Russian learning guides and ressource websites similar to learnjapanese.moe for Japanese, or heavenlypath.notion.site for Mandarin.
          I'm also looking for a language partner willing to learn French and to teach Russian

          I'm learning Spanish. There's some good podcasts for practice, my favorite is called Immersive Spanish. For more immersion, I try to watch Spanish content. I watch Vtubers and a Idol corp released a Spanish branch this year which is great for someone like me. I get to hear people speaking it while I can also glance at the chat messages as well.

          4 months later

          I am a native speaker of English and an advanced speaker of Spanish, but not quite fluent. I have been learning Japanese for the past few years, but I admit that my progress has been slow. I possess around a JLPT N5 level of proficiency in it.

          Update for a year later, Finnish is going strong, can comfortably put it on a resume. Talking with others is a bit rough seeing if how I can't find anyone to bullshit with and Finns are allergic to friends lmao. Don't give up fellas.

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